In this eulogy published by The Daily Beast, Elliot Ackerman honors his friend and fellow Marine, Master Sergeant Aaron Torian, who was killed in action in Helmand Province, Afghanistan, on February 15, 2014.
A Marine Who Believed
Ackerman remembers Torian as a man defined by belief: in God, in his family, in his friends, and in the teams he served alongside. His confidence, steadiness, and humor gave others something to hold onto in difficult moments.
Leadership Under Pressure
Drawing on their service together in Afghanistan, Ackerman recalls Torian’s calm voice during failed patrols, broken vehicles, exhausting days, and tense debriefs. When frustration threatened to divide the team, Torian restored perspective and reminded everyone that they were still friends.
Friendship, Family, and Faith
The eulogy also reflects on Torian’s devotion to his wife, Jurley, and their three children. Ackerman describes how Torian spoke constantly about his family and how his belief in others inspired them to become better versions of themselves.
A Legacy of Belief
Delivered at Arlington National Cemetery, the eulogy asks Torian’s family and friends to carry forward the faith, loyalty, work ethic, and love that defined his life. Ackerman’s final message is simple: now it is their turn to believe for him.