In this installment of A Man Should Know for The Free Press, Elliot Ackerman reflects on air travel, airport civility, and the balance between comfort and respect while traveling.
The essay begins with Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy’s call for a renewed sense of courtesy in air travel. Ackerman considers what it means to travel well, from dressing appropriately to packing efficiently and preparing for the inevitable discomforts of airports and airplanes.
Traveling with Courtesy
Ackerman argues that travelers should not treat the airport like a living room, but he also acknowledges that comfort matters. His practical advice includes wearing a sports jacket, avoiding checked bags when possible, and always bringing earplugs.
Comfort on the Journey
For overnight flights, Ackerman makes the case for changing into pajamas once onboard. The point is not informality at the airport, but preserving comfort and equilibrium during long travel days.
Knowing When to Stay Home
The essay ultimately turns from how to travel to when to travel. Drawing on a childhood memory of his mother choosing to stay with him when he was sick, Ackerman reflects on family, obligation, and the moments when staying home matters more than leaving.
A man should know how to travel, but he should also know when not to.