In the first installment of A Man Should Know for The Free Press, Elliot Ackerman begins with a basic but important skill: how to introduce yourself.
The essay connects the act of introduction to lessons Ackerman learned in the Marine Corps, beginning with the salute. For Ackerman, a proper introduction is not only a social gesture. It is a way of showing respect, stepping out from behind anonymity, and meeting another person directly.
The Importance of Introductions
Ackerman argues that meaningful relationships often begin with simple habits: looking someone in the eye, shaking their hand, giving your name, remembering theirs, and listening with genuine interest.
Respect, Confidence, and Curiosity
The essay also explores how introductions can disarm tension, envy, and misunderstanding. In a world shaped by online conflict, meeting someone face to face can change the nature of an encounter.
A Lesson in Manhood
At its center, the essay is about maturity and social courage. A man should know how to put himself forward, treat others with respect, and lift his visor before doing battle.